Sometimes we may feel like we have failed or not done something as well as we would have like too. For example you are baking some brownies with a friend but you leave them in the oven too long because you forgot about them, and they got burnt. You may get a feeling like you have failed and the brownies are ruined. True the brownies probably won't taste good. Another example you are trying to help someone understand a principle. You explain it to them in the simplest form you can but they still don't get it. There is nothing more you can do to help them understand it. You may have felt like you could have done better or like you failed that person. We often give out efforts to help someone or to help ourselves but sometimes they are not enough. Remember no good effort is ever wasted. Going back to the brownie story. K so you burnt they brownies, bummer, tough luck, but make something out of it. Cut a piece out of the cow-pie and through it at your friend, get a laugh out of it. Your good intentions of making some delicious desserts failed but your effort in trying to have a good time with a friend wasn't wasted. You got a laugh out of the situation and probably strengthened the relationship with your friend. Now going back to the other scenario. The person you were trying to help didn't understand the principle when you were explaining it to them. You did your best and that's all you can do. You may not ever find out but later that person may talk to someone else or read something from their textbook. Then they will get it. If you weren't to have tried to help them they wouldn't have been able to get the principle. They understood the principle because of how you explained it and because of their second effort in learning the principle. Again the good effort wasn't wasted, plus you may have helped yourself because you probably understand the principle a little better now. In both of these situations the initial effort was thought to be a waste but in reality they weren't. This kind of thing happens all the time, especially in missionary work. We think that we have failed because we weren't able to get something done our first try. But really we learn from them, whether it be to set an alarm so we don't forget the brownies, we better understand a principle and can now explain it a little better or, when to use the scriptures. Just remember that no good effort will ever be wasted.
Elder Morrison
I'm a Mormon, I love to ski, play sports and my Savior Jesus Christ. I'm a missionary in the NY Rochester Mission. Life is tough, especially as a missionary. Life is also fun because I get to help people improve the quality of their lives. Now my blogs aren't perfect, but I hope that my messages will uplift you and strengthen your relationship with Jesus Christ just a little bit.
Friday, March 25, 2011
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Never Give Up
Never giving up is extremely hard. It's hard just to get through the day sometimes, even just get out of bed. It's hard for mothers to put up with their kids every day. It's hard for a student to stay focused near the end of the school year. It's hard to pay the bills sometimes. But how rewarding is it to look back when you have conquered that difficult task and know that you finished it. Every day we are faced with challenges and sometimes we want to give up because we think they are too hard. We must not give up we must press forward everyday. When we press forward and have faith in Jesus Christ He will help us overcome our obstacles. I know He will, he has helped me get over some big hurdles. Last summer I got in a little bit of trouble and had some consequences for my actions. When I was taking care of the ramifications, which I deserved, I needed help, I wanted to quit. It took me a while to finish all of it. Often I wanted to give up and go home, but our Lord helped me endure to the end. He gave me strength when I was the weakest, he assured me that I could complete the task no matter how hard I thought it would be. Without him I wouldn't have been able to finish what needed to be finished and I would have dug myself into a deeper hole. God helped me push through the hard times and I gained experience from them, and I know that he will do the same for you. After we get to the top of the ladder we look back on how hard it was for us to get to the top. When we do we get that great feeling of accomplishment, like we are kings and queens of the world and we can do anything. So when the times get rough or you're just having a bad day, remember our Savior and know he loves you and will help you press forward until the end, and we will be able to climb that ladder.Elder Morrison
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Change
Elder Morrison
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